Happy New Year!
Every new year there is pressure to have grand plans of a whole new YOU! We are bombarded with ads: “If you lose 10 pounds, you will be happy!” “If you invest your money with us, you will be secure!” Sometimes we make resolutions without really thinking about them. However, research shows that we humans are not great (we’re actually pretty darn bad) at making goals that bring us happiness in the long run, which is why we eat too much, save too little. Before you jump into making resolutions, I challenge you to take a step back first.
These are big and overwhelming questions. Ones that we don’t think about very often, and, for most people, aren’t questions we ask ourselves when talking about money. When it comes to money, more is always better, right?!?
Listen, I’m not a fan of woo-woo stuff but if it works, it works. Try these three George Kinder questions below to help get the ball rolling:
If you are partnered, go through these questions solo and then compare notes.
Did you have any a-ha moments? Are you spending your resources – time, energy, money – for the important values in your life?
A question I hear often from potential clients is “What should my number be?” In other words, how big should my pot of money be so I can get on with enjoying my life? Do you have your own number in mind? Bet you do!
We are a goal-orientated society and think we will be ok once we reach that target. But when you got the work promotion you were gunning for, how long did that feeling of accomplishment last? How long before you started making new goals? The target is always moving.
The question of enough can be particularly difficult for clients who have equity compensation. They don’t want to leave money on the table, money that they earned. “I just want to wait until next year’s shares to vest… until the stock price is higher….”
What are you giving up or delaying to reach this number? What is the cost of staying until your shares vest or until the market bounces back? Money isn’t the only factor. We forget that other important personal resources are our time and our energy. Where and how we spend our time and what we focus on are significant considerations.
Are you paying with time that could be spent with your family or a job that you find more fulfilling? Are you paying with mental and emotional energy that leaves you too grumpy, resentful, depleted to do anything else?
Recently, I’ve had dear friends lose close friends and family unexpectedly. Some of the people who passed were in their 40’s. Death comes for us all, and we don’t know when. We can get caught up in accumulating money as a resource, as a measuring stick. Maybe as you make resolutions for this new year, consider that your time and your attention are also precious resources to optimize and use mindfully.
If you are interested in reading more on this topic, check out a previous blog on Do I Have Enough to Retire?
Wish you all the best in this new year!!
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